RELATIONSHIP WITH A MARRIED MAN

Hello Catherine,
how will I recognize a married man? I'm dating this man for already one month but I still have a feeling like he might be married. He is one mystery man for me. Are there any tricks to recognize a married man? 

Desperate Sarah

Hello Desperate Sarah,

first I'd like to thank you for this question. 

Your situation reminds me of mine past situation. I dated a man that was married. I didn't know about his family. If I knew all of that, I would left him. I have big respect and loyalty to family. One day I called him but his wife picked up his phone. I was shocked and disgusted in the same time. Of course I understood that she is mad at me. After my explanation she was mad at her husband. About not telling me about them - her wife and their little son. She even offered me her friendship but I refused it with big thanks. To be honest - I can't imagine a friendship with a woman that is wife of my ex. It sounds really complicated, right? 

But! - you are lucky woman, Sarah. There are some warning signs. 

First of them is a indentation or a tan line on his ring finger. 

Second sign are "odd" calls. Do you remember the situation when he got call and acted nervous? 

Third sign is that he is not texting or calling you back in hours. 

Four sign is that he is busy on weekends. He never spends a weekend with you because he "is" on business trip. 

Five sign is that he didn't introduce you to his friends yet. 

And six sign is that he didn't invite you into his house or apartment.

These are six warning signs that you should be careful about. I feel like you feel very uncomfortable about your "mystery man" as you call him. I feel some doubts. And if I was you - I would listen to my heart. An intuition. Because it's always right. 

If you want to know more about him but he is still that mysterious, tell him some about your secrets. Then he should be open to you. 

If he still is full of secrets even you were open to him, maybe he is really married. 

I can't order you to leave him. But you should be honest to yourself. 

I hope that my advice help you and I hope that your mystery man is not that much mystery at all.

Don't forget three important things to be completely happy: always listen to your intuition, be honest to you and smile.

Your Catherine