Wednesday, 2 September 2015

LEAVING A LOVING PERSON / FORGETTING LOVE


Hi Catherine, 
I'd like to know your opinion about this - I used to date a man that was everything for me but then left me and I feel like I'm a different person. I dated some men but I feel like I can't love anyone anymore. Is that even possible?
Rachel

Dear Rachel,
I know how it feels when you lose someone that was a part of you. Someone that you had a couple of plans with.
And I don't think that you can't lov. But I have a feeling like you're forcing yourself in love. And it's not good. Love doesn't work like this. It needs a patience and time. 
It's good that you weren't depressed and didn't give up on everything after your break-up but the bad thing is that you didn't take any time for yourself. 
You can't love with any pressure.
So enjoy being single for some time! Take your friend for shopping, get a talk with mom or change your haircut. Do whatever you want - things that can heal you. 
And trust me - love is waiting for such a woman like you - strong and brave.
Just don't force yourself into anything and be yourself!
I wish you only luck
Catherine

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